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    The Truth About Parenting + Giveaway

    October 27th, 2016

    Are you a first time parent or a parent of multiples? I am reviewing Paul David Tripp’s newest book called PARENTING: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family. It is very eye-opening and such a great book to read as a couple or on your own.

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    When you have low days

    Yesterday I broke down crying. Not because I am a female and I have hormones but because I was emotionally exhausted. I realized that I was correcting and parenting ALL DAY LONG. It was 9pm and I had not had dinner yet and I had been going nonstop since 8am in the morning.

    Do other moms get me? I am sure you are in the same spot. I think it is okay to be able to communicate that parenting is HARD and a HUGE challenge. It is not easy. I do not consider myself a helicopter mom but a mom that is trying to teach her kids the most about life and how to be a loving human being by knowing the truth of the Gospel.

    Looking at Yourself

    Parenting has made me look at myself and question my identity. The truth is that the way I respond and react to my kids only tells me about MYSELF and how much work I need in myself. Whether you want to believe it or not, our parenting methods come from what we SAW in our home life whether positive or negative.

    If you had a difficult childhood, you might imitate the same parenting with your own children OR you might just go the extreme opposite and be passive about parenting at all. While this might be a lot to take in, That it is something I have been thinking about for a long time and really only after I had my second daughter.

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    PARENTING: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family

    Paul David Tripp is a best-selling author and totally not new to our family. During the summer we attended a parenting series at out church for the summer. It was the most eye-opening time for me and my husband. We learned a lot about how to parent the way that God loves us and see us. Imagine trying to wrap your mind around this!! It is huge!

    This summer was revealing in so many aspects because it made me realize how much of my childhood and what I saw affected and still affects how I parent. BUT one thing I am sure is that things get better and can only go one way: UPHILL! 

    When I became a mother I did not know that I would feel pressure to do the best and for my kids to be the best in public. As I read Paul David Tripp’s newest book, he specifically pin pointed on fourteen foundational principles that are focused on the Gospel. He shares that there is more than the latest parenting books or techniques and that our view of parenting must be shaped by GRACE in order for us to parent correctly.

    It is not about parenting in order to raise GOOD kids but making sure our mentality as parents is sound, directed and empowered by the Holy Spirit. God is in control of our kids hearts and of change as well as change in our hearts as parents. 

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    Over our heads

    If you have been looking for practical or easy how-to tips on how to parent, this really is not your book. I was unsure of how I would respond but I continue to read each chapter, convicted of the ways I have focused incorrectly how to raise, respond, and react to my children. If anything, I know that parenting sure is a mirror of who I am, and I know that I thank God for the work in progress that I am. So, what are these principles? 

    1. Calling
    2. Grace
    3. Law
    4. Inability
    5. Identity
    6. Process
    7. Lost
    8. Authority
    9. Foolishness
    10. Character
    11. False Gods
    12. Control
    13. Rest
    14. Mercy

    I hope this list piques your interest because I am giving a copy away to any parent that is interested in reading this book. Paul David Tripp speaks truth even telling stories on he has stumbled as a parent in raising his kids. He focuses everything back to the Bible and what God says about each principle relating to us and our relationship to God and our kids.

    If you struggle with your children and feel hopeless, please consider reading this book because it brings and gives hope. There is always an opportunity for change and for another viewpoint when it comes to parenting. We are not alone and parenting should NEVER be negative because we, after all, are equipping these little ones to go out into this world and live and some day be parents themselves.

    Giveaway

    For all my US readers, please leave a comment below letting me know what is the hardest part of parenting. Giveaway will end on November 2, 2016 at midnight.

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    Keeping a Balanced and Active Lifestyle with Dole Packaged Foods

    October 24th, 2016

    This is a sponsored post with Dole Packaged Foods and We All Grow Latina Network. All opinions are my own and based on our personal experiences with our active lifestyle.

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    It has been 6 weeks since I quit my job in the medical field and 6 weeks since I have been a full-time stay-at-home mom. Truth be told I was doing both at the same time while parenting and it was really challenging. Now that I am a stay-at-home mom, I realized it has its own challenges.

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    Busy mom of three

    Somehow it seemed easier doing it all. Actually I was not doing it all because I focused on my job, taking care of the girls and doing the necessary chores to keep my head above water. The stark reality is that keeping a home and raising kids is definitely a big job even more when the kids start going to school.

    I consider myself a mom who is always on the go, I think I get some of this from my mother. I plan activities for our girls and for our family on the weekends, so I really try hard to prepare in advance to have the essentials for my girls when we go places. It does not go so well when I am just too tired to get my act together because I definitely pay for it later. 

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    Last weekend, I took the girls to a local theater to watch Wizard of Oz. It was perfect timing since we had just finished reading the book. Since it was a matinée and a long show a that, I knew that I had to be prepared to have something for the girls to munch on besides the normal concessions. I prefer to give my girls healthy snacks like Dole Packaged Foods which definitely came in handy as I packed our to-go bags. Dole Packaged Foods offers high quality, contemporary products from a long-standing, trusted company that’s been around for over 160 years.

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    During intermission, the Fruitocracy fruit pouches came in handy for my 3 1/2 and 5 year-old daughters. It made for a great combination with the packaged almonds. If anything, I make sure that my girls are getting a great balance of healthy that is also fun. Fruit pouches are actually pretty special treat for my older girls because it is fast, convenient and satisfying.

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    Active kids

    My girls know I like the be outdoors and for me, it is easier to manage my girls in an outdoor setting. During the weekdays, after I pick my older two girls from preschool, I chose an area playground and have lunch packed for them. My youngest toddler, who is 15-months old, is definitely ready to eat by 11:30, so if I plan to go anywhere, I must have a snack available.

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    It is definitely a challenge to be prepared on days that are tight with dropping kids to school and cleaning the daily mess, I know that I have my go-to snacks that I can pop into my lunch bag. Hey, even I can have my daily fruit intake with Fruitocracy pouches. Thanks to Dole Packaged Foods for having fun flavors to keep my kids entertained and even nourished when out and about.

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    Busy and active lifestyle

    I will admit that I am not used to slowing down because having little ones keeps you going but my life has always been like that even as a single woman. It almost seems natural to keep the energy going with your family. Although our family is not quite involved in extracurricular activities like sports, gymnastics and dance, we take a rest in order to enjoy the joys of community with our church.

    Knowing that this keeps us busy twice a week is enough to give the other activities a rest until the girls are little older. Sometimes I feel like I need to have an ice chest of snacks ready instead of packing them daily which is what I will probably do next. What an idea!

    But while busy schedules and weeks go by, I know that having some downtime at home with my girls is always important in order for them to realize that home is where rest is. Even if it is our communal backyard, I know that letting my girls run in the grass and climbing the trees is just as good as racing around in a car making it to local playgrounds. Even so, the convenience of fruit pouches like Fruitocracy and Dole Packaged Foods make our busy lives so much more easier.

    Invite Dole to your home and be surprised with everything they offer. Their products will be helpful in any active lifestyle.

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    What I Loved About WOW Summit Weekend

    October 12th, 2016

    WOW Summit weekend was a great with moms and bloggers at the Gaylord National Harbor Resort in Maryland discovering and connecting with healthy brands.

    This was my first year to attend WOW Summit even though it is in its 4th year. The first year was held right in my town, but with a new baby, it was not really something I could swing. Three years later and I finally found myself around Moms Meet staff and many bloggers I have come across online.

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    WOW Summit Weekend with Blogger Pass

    I arrived Friday morning after driving from Philadelphia for 2 1/2 hours. I was glad to arrive with one hour to spare so I could relax and check into my room. While I did not have an amazing view from my room, I was not far away from all the scheduled programs. I was in awe with the enormity of the resort and wondered how close everything was going to be during the weekend. Luckily, all activities were centralized.

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    When I signed up for the conference, I knew there were several different options for me. I chose the blogger pass which allowed me to attend three of ten sessions which also included a speed networking with brands in the early evening. If anything, I was looking forward getting to know new brands and putting a face to some brands I was familiar with.

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    Blogger Sessions

    Originally, I knew there were going to be several sessions but I did not know I was only going to get three choices between ten opportunities. It was quite tough to choose, but at the end I am glad I chose the ones I did. Which ones did I attend?

    • How to Build a Community with Facebook Groups with Anne Paris
      • I learned how easy it is to gain true engagement on Facebook despite the change that it made to the Facebook pages. I have been seriously disillusioned with my engagement on my own page that I needed to see if there were other ways to revive and keep my readers engaged. If you are interested in hearing more, please feel free to email me.
      • Anne Paris was a delight to chat with and very authentic. I am happy to have met her and look forward following her.
    • Blogging Authority: How to Master the Media and Gain Credibility with Laura Harders
      • I enjoyed meeting Laura and was encouraged by all she shared. I was encouraged how to make my brand well-known beyond the online community through tv networks and even magazines. Even though I have done some magazine submissions I knew I needed a few more options and some encouragement.
    • How to Transition from Amateur to Pro Blogger with Blogging Concentrated
      • I do not know where to start with everything I heard from Dan Morris and Rachel Martin. At one point I think my head was going to pop from all the information I was receiving. I was amazed by the amount of information and experience these two speakers have, but they obviously KNOW what they are doing because they are quite successful at it.
      • The big plus is that I got to be part of a mastermind group at a LATE night session in one of the special conference rooms. Any question could be asked of these two speakers and boy did they share. They share mostly about creating a product for your own personal brand. I was astounded at how easy it was but how thorough I needed to be to make it happen. All this caused me to brainstorm ideas like no one’s business as well as possibly rebranding.

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    Networking

    After the sessions we had an hour and a half to eat dinner. The Gaylord has great options in-house so we visited the National Pasttime Sports Bar. While the waiter seemed to be distracted with the games on the big screens, we enjoyed crab cakes around the table. It helped us all be prepared for the speed networking we were about to experience.

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    Wow. SPEEDY it was. I never experiences speed dating but we definitely experienced speed meeting over 20 brands in one of the conference rooms. None of the bloggers really knew what exactly we were doing but I sat with a Carolina from Mama Instincts and we both moved around to each table around the room after 4 minutes with the brand.

    Yes. We survived giving each brand our business card and media kits and were excited to get to know more about their product the next day at their showcase. Truth be told, many of the brands were new to me. I was able to read about all of the them before arriving that evening and even found out many were brand new to bloggers. Now it is time to follow-up and see which ones would be a great fit for me and my family.

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    Cocktails and Comedy

    While I dreamed of a little break in my hotel room, we really did not have the time. We went straight from speed networking to cocktail hour. The spread was pretty amazing and healthy! Mediterranean hor d’oeuvres were served with an option for two cocktails. I enjoyed a lovely gin and tonic with my plate of goodies.

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    A fun ice cream sundae bar was set up for those who wanted to end the night with a sweet treat. The comedy hour unfortunately was not Dena Blizzard because Hurricane Matthew impeded her travel, nonetheless, Moms Meet folks found a last-minute fill in, but unfortunately was not something I cared for. Either way, a group of us sat on the floor outside the ballroom and enjoyed a lovely hour of conversation which then ended with a great view from the 18th floor!

    Exhibitor Hall on Saturday

    Saturday morning’s activities started at 9am for another group of ticket holders: moms. Many of the mornings offerings were special sessions about health, healthy eating, recipes, organic beauty, motherhood, and more. Since that was not my focus, I did not attend but what I did attend was the exhibitor hall.

    Remember the brands we met the night before? Well, they each had their own booth in the ballroom floor of the Gaylord National and each shared their products with samples for moms and bloggers to enjoy. It was a nice round-up but I was easily done in less than an hour.

    I had lunch with a few bloggers and called the day short because weather was pretty rough and I simply did not want to travel in the dark with storms.

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    Pros and Cons

    While this was my first time attending the conference, I am not sure I would attend again, unless there were sessions I simply could not miss. I would go again for sure for the goody bag! There were so many things in my bag that I have already organized in ways I can use them in my daily use.

    One thing I really think staff should have included were more snacks from sponsors during our Friday all-day sessions and meetings. With so many brands representing, I am sure a brand would sponsor snacks to go with the hot drinks that were provided. I kind of expected it!

    Saturday morning included no food or snacks at all. A simple continental breakfast since a 9am call was given would be nice for those moms wanting to sleep in. Sessions ran through lunch time so  yet again there were no snacks given out.

    DO we sense a theme? Food is important, next to coffee, but moms need sustenance. The locations of the conference was great and posh and a nice home away from home stay for this mother of three.

    Thanks for Moms Meet for providing my stay at Gaylord National Harbor and for allowing me to experience a nice weekend, discovering great brands for my family.

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    WOW Summit 2016 this weekend

    October 6th, 2016

    Hey friends!

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    I will be out this weekend in Washington D.C. attending the Wow Summit through Moms Meet.

    NOW WAIT!

    Before you go on deleting my post….this conference is for bloggers and moms. I will be live sometimes on social media sharing some of the sessions I attend on Friday night and even share some of the products and brands that I will be meeting!

    Here is a link to Eventbrite to buy your ticket. Save an extra 15% using my code SK15.

     

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    Friday at Gaylord Resort

    Friday’s events start with TEN different sessions to choose from. I cannot believe I have to choose three of the lot, but it is the way it is. We then get a chance to meet brands and network and then some time for dinner. 

    Looking forward to cocktails and comedy hour too! I know there will be some ladies I know who will be attending.

    Saturday morning at Gaylord Resort

    Then on Saturday morning, I will be choosing some sessions that will be directed to moms. Great sessions by well-known speakers. Catch a few of the titles:

    • Healthy Moms Grow Happier Kids

    • Dr. Drew Ramsey, DrewRamseyMD.com
    • Why Being a Mom is Enough

    • Rachel Martin, Finding Joy
    • I’d Do Anything for You, Including Change the World

    • Gloria Pan, Moms Rising
    • How to Give Your Kids Freedom and Independence without Living in Fear

    • Lenore Skenazy, Free Range Kids

    I know I have friends that have asked how they could get into blogging, well this weekend is your chance to get a sense of what it is all about. If you are on your phone, (hahahaha, you know you are on all the time, like me) then use this hashtag:

    #WOWSummit on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook

     

    You won’t just see my posts but the many women who will be attending! If you are not following already, make sure you head to all my channels to keep up with me this weekend!

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/singerinkitchen

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Singerinkitchen/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singerinkitchen/ and look at IG stories too!

    Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/add/singerinkitchen

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    Look at all these sponsors! Which of these brands are you interested in knowing more about? 

    Tell me! 

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    If you are already going, let me know! Let’s chat, have coffee, have a party in my room, etc. I am up for anything. Have a safe trip to those attending and those viewing through social media!

    Before you leave

    Make sure to check out my post about WINIX air purifiers. They will be at the conference and I am so excited to know more about them and their product. 

    Also read more about the conference in a previous post. Thanks!!

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    Keeping Air Clean with Wi-Fi enabled Winix Smart™ Air Purifier

    October 5th, 2016

    Keep an air purifier in your home every season to ensure a cleaner and safer environment. An additional purifier with your home filter will hopefully help keep colds and allergies at a bare minimum.

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    Allergies during Fall Season

    The change of seasons always causes a little havoc in our home between my husband’s allergies and my kid’s developing allergies, it is hard to keep everyone healthy. Ragweed is definitely at a high during the late summer into the end of October, so I have to endure hearing sneezing and seeing runny noses.

    As a mother of three toddlers, I am always striving to keep our house clean but while that is impossible, I know that dust is probably the biggest struggle through the blinds, furniture, ceilings, and more. I cringe just thinking of the places I do not get to reach as I clean my home but what if I could have a helper that is behind the scenes, keeping up with me?

    Air Purifiers

    While our home has a filter, it is hard to remember when to change. With allergy in full swing and then cold season, I really am looking for other options to keep our family healthy this season. Thanks to Winix, there are two new air purifiers on the market that have the Winix Smart™ Wi-Fi app for monitoring air quality in my home including the True HEPA filter for removing allergens and bacteria from the environment.

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    These two filters, the HR1000 and the NK105 are both new Wi-Fi enabled models and can be used anywhere around the house, from the baby room to the kids activity room or even in an area with the most traffic. All I know is that I want to obliterate any unwelcome viruses or even harmful bacteria, spores, or even mold!

    The WINIX  HR1000 Air Purifier

    This air purifier is large, purifying 400 square feet. It also offers a 5-Stage air purification system with the following:

    • Washable Pre-Filter
    • Coated Deodorization (CD) Carbon Filter
    • Anti-microbial True HEPA Filter
    • WINIX PlasmaWave® Technology – this technology creates hydroxyls that instantly neutralize viruses, bacteria, odors, and gases. 

    What are hydroxyls?  Hydroxyl is a safe, highly effective, and naturally occurring compound in the earth’s atmosphere that scrubs pollution, odors, and harmful pathogens from the air we breathe. Sounds amazing right?

    The WINIX NK105 Air Purifier

    This purifier is a medium size and covers 320 square feet of space. It offers a 4-stage system instead of a 5-stage and includes the following:

    • A 360° All-in-One Filter featuring a hair collecting Pre-filter
    • Coated DeOdorization (CD) Carbon Filter
    • 99.97% True HEPA Filter
    • PlasmaWave® Technology, all of which combine to offer superior control of Pet Dander and Odor, as well as capturing other Particles and Allergens.

    It seems like this air purifier would be a better fit for people who own pets. Here is a look at how the air circulates:

    These purifiers sure do offer a lot of options for homes and even lets owners see when the filters should be replaced and it even alerts when the air quality is excellent, good or poor. What a great way to know that the air quality in your home will be.

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    Want to know more about the company? Make sure to check out their website. While I do not own a filter, I am looking forward getting to know them more while at Wow Summit in Washington, D.C. this weekend.

    What worries do you have about your air quality at home? Any concerns?

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